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Alisa. 36. New Hampshire. Married for two years to this wonderful, funny, smart guy. Previously married. Went through in-vitro fertilization to have my four and a half year old magical son Keegan. Stepmother to the charming Isabelle (5). Just had our first child together, a boy, Harper(born June 10). Policy Wonk and dreaded bureaucrat. Lover of fine cuisine, honeybees, truly romantic moments and the underdog.
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Smoke's Chili

Yield 12 servings (serving size: 1 cup chili, 1 tablespoon sour cream, and 1 tablespoon cheese)

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2 teaspoons vegetable oil, divided
3 1/2 pounds lean, boned chuck roast, cut into 1/2-inch pieces
3 cups chopped green bell pepper
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Extra Snuggles

I am home today with Master Keegan. Tom and I were going to split the day but then I decided that there was nothing that important for me at work. It stinks because I don't have any sick leave but I feel better being here with him.
Keegan has two major ear infections. Apparently he is one of those kids that is just prone to them. We can expect one almost every time he gets a cold. Atleast I know what we are dealing with. The doc gave him power doses of antibiotics and he is doing much better. His fever was almost 104, which scared me. He is still warm but feeling playful. I am hoping he will continue to take lots of naps. The only side effect of the meds is loosens stools. Ugh.
Want to know the worst part?
He was bitten again at daycare yesterday. That is three times in case you lost count. They called Tom at home because they forgot to tell him when he picked Keegan up. There is a bite shaped bruise on his calf. This I am very concerned about. I don't understand why they would keep putting him with the same child who has clearly chosen him as a target. You know if he tried to bite any of the other kids, they would fight back. My sweet guy doesn't know how. Noone has ever been mean to him before. I have a call in to the Director. I want to know what the behavior intervention plan is and how they are going to keep Keegan safe. I am glad I kept my list of other daycare options. Getting sick is one thing but being attacked is a not acceptable.

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Hi! Aunt BJ is sending all of her snuggles to Keegan!!!!

Shared by Aunt BJ at November 18, 2004 10:22 AM

Grrr...I don't know what I would do if someone bit Rachel! I think I'd be tempted to seek out the offender and bite him back! ;)

Shared by allie at November 18, 2004 11:06 AM

I dislike biters. I wonder if they are telling the parents about it. Poor Keeg!

Shared by Margie at November 18, 2004 8:54 PM

I feel for you so much, on the ear infection, but moreso on the biting. It is SOOOO frustrating watching another child bully your baby. I was distressed at the toddler gym when a bigger kid tried to push Doodles around. I was furious that the mom did nothing. But what got to me was watching Doodles turn around and bully someone smaller! Of course, I intervened immediately, but these little guys (and perhaps little gals too--it's just outside my range of experience) start to really become possessive and test boundaries. I know this isn't at all helpful. But think of how much more sympathetic you'll be to Keegan when he's the one doing the biting (or hair pulling or toy yanking or hitting...). It seems they all try it at some point or another! Anyway, I just wanted to let you know that I understand completely your frustration! It's one thing at a toddler gym that we go to only occasionally and I can supervise at. It's another at a day care! Definitely intrigued about what the director says to you. Good luck!

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