"the single greatest predictor of infant adjustment is maternal mental health. In other words, to put it more scientifically, if mama ain't happy, ain't nobody happy. So do whatever it takes to be happy."

Big discussion going on about people telling others how to be good mothers. I can not say anything that hasn't beeen said more eloquently by others but I really liked that quote. Sums it up nicely. As much joy as I felt when Keegan was born I was very sensitive to any symptoms of post-partum depression. I wanted to make sure that I would be able to tell others if I needed help. Fortunately I was okay but I also knew my limitations and what I needed to do to maintain my mental health. And when I didn't, the people I loved insisted on it. My pediatrician's office now screens for parental depression at all child appointments. I think it is an idea long overdue.

I have lots of strong opinions about mothering (and many other topics) too. I didn't make any do or die decisions about breastfeeding, cloth diapering, etc. until I was there actually doing it. Everyone's experience is unique. I would never deem to tell someone else what to do. I try to only give solicited advice. Well unless it is for family and close friends, then I butt right in. But they already know this about me.