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Alisa. 37. New Hampshire. Married for almost three years to this wonderful, funny, smart guy. Previously married. Went through in-vitro fertilization to have my five year old magical son Keegan. Stepmother to the charming Isabelle (6). Gushingly in love with our baby boy Harper(1). Policy Wonk and dreaded bureaucrat. Lover of fine cuisine, honeybees, truly romantic moments and the underdog.
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Curried Beef Short Ribs

Note: I found this was more realistically four servings.

Finishing this dish with lime zest and juice brightens its rich flavors.

Yield 6 servings (serving size: about 3 ounces ribs, 2/3 cup rice, and about 2 1/2 tablespoons sauce)

2 teaspoons canola oil
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Mark It With A "B"

Keegan and I are getting this teamwork thing together. Yesterday I got up enough courage to take him to the grocery store. It was sunny and in the 40s which is warm for around here. The clock starting ticking after I nursed him and I knew I had to stick to my two hour window of opportunity. He slept through the store while I was totally paranoid the whole time. I was hyper conscious of people bumping into us or touching him with germy hands. I had nothing to worry about and we got home safe. Keegan even slept while I put the groceries away. Score one for mom.
I started my plan of pumping and having Tom give him a bottle at night to help me get some sleep. However we haven't had a lot of sucess. The first night I hadn't pumped enough and Keegan was hungry an hour later. Last night I filled a bottle but he was fussy and didn't eat well. He gulps it down and then spits up or is impossible to burp. Poor Tom kept him until after 1 am. I told him not to do that any more because he has to get up at 6am. I did not take the time to pump today as he has been eating every two hours and I can't get any pumping in. I still can't get Keegan to sleep well in his cradle. It is almost like he doesn't want to be flat on his back. Maybe it is a gas thing. So I have resorted to bringing him to bed. I am over my fear that we will squish him. He is perfectly content to lay without blankets on the sheet between Tom and I. I have also been putting him to sleep in fleece sacks. He seems to like the ability to kick his legs and I don't have to worry about keeping his feet covered. Every day is different so we have to keep adapting. He is in a Sn*ugli pack on me right now. I read somewhere that babies who are carried or held 3 hours a day are less fussy at night. Besides I like having him along while I am doing chores.

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it sounds like you're doing great, Alisa! good luck with the pumping/sleeping schedules...it will all come together for you, i'm positive! Three months is a great age to be, and you'll be there before you know it. Hang in there! Much love to all...

Shared by anathea at February 11, 2004 8:26 PM

You're doing great, especially by breastfeeding. I know you have a lot going on but I'm still waiting with bated breath to hear your birth story as I am due mid-March.

Shared by Caroline at February 12, 2004 10:22 AM

Gas can definitely make it uncomfy for babies to sleep on their backs. Eli has reflux and has to sleep on his tummy because it hurts too much otherwise. You could try putting something under one end of the mattress to elevate his head and see if that helps.

If he's gulping down his bottles like that and then spitting up, you may want to try a different kind with a slower-flow nipple. We had that prob too, and when we switched bottles (from Playtex Nursers to Playtex VentAires) the problem stopped. He was just getting too much too fast and couldn't handle it.

Sounds like things are going great! Sorry about the novel! ;)

Shared by Cheryl at February 12, 2004 10:48 AM

we loved the sack gowns. Andy lived in them for the first few weeks. Made diaper changes easy. Also, Andy didn't like laying on his back either and so on those nights when he refused the family bed, he was in the vibrating bouncy seat. That thing was a godsend! He slept like a charmer in that thing for the first few months off and on. I even had the nerve to put the bouncy seat on my bed just so that I felt better. Can you imagine the heads rolling on that one, lol? Just do what works!

Shared by Eden at February 12, 2004 1:42 PM









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